子路问曰:“何如斯可谓之士矣?”子曰:“切切偲偲,怡怡如也,可谓士矣。朋友切切偲偲,兄弟怡怡。”
1Tsze-lu asked, saying, 'What qualities must a man possess to entitle him to be called a scholar?' The Master said, 'He must be thus,-- earnest, urgent, and bland:-- among his friends, earnest and urgent; among his brethren, bland.'